The bus was very much crowded like even you can hear peope’s breathing sound because it was clg leaving time ,mostly clg girls were standing ,and at one stop an uncle came , actually i pitied him coz I thought he would feel very uncomfortable standing near full of girls . I was also standing . But I was facing opposite side ,he stood beside me ,he was holding a cover something ,his hands were touching on my breast ,I was so innocent that time so I thought it happened mistakenly like that , he didn’t take his hands .I don’t know how to tell how I felt like I felt very uncomfortable but i didn’t realize he is doing voluntarily ,he is enjoying that . I really thought ,to hold his cover he was keeping his hands like that andmistakenly he is touching me like that .yeah I was really dumb .I was wearing bag , he also told me to remove my bag ,i didn’t .then only I completely turned my head to see what is reallyhappening like ,really this person has no place to stand to keep his hands away , when I saw ,i didn’t ask him anything but he himself told ,”I am going to step off in this stop ” then some people went so there was space I went far way from that person as I can . He told he will step off this stop but he didn’t ,then only I slowly started to realize ,and it came on my mind that why he was holding his cover like that like he can but his hands down itself ,there is no need to hold it like that .when I finall me ,my eyes filled with tears like why ,what enjoyment he get ,am I an object ? ,how can he see me in that way ,and why I was dumb ? If you have never been sexually abused or assaulted ,u may think that I would have felt very bad that day only . But no. Not only that day ,For months I felt uncomfortable whenever a man touches me ,even myfather hug felt uncomfortable , the bus no. is 40 H (Chennai ) ,why I am mentioning this is because many clg girls travel in this bus .I have seen one time a main appropriately touching girls butts but I can’t able to say anything coz they will easily defend like because of the crowd mistakenly happened .Just be very careful girls, don’t trust anyone . If you face situation like this, don’t expect someone to stand for you ,you have to face it by yourself ,like in movies they show ,no hero will come to save you . Even in my clg ,the office staff of my department, who is a married man always flirts with me .So remember ,these kinds of disgusting people are every where , you have to be extra careful, you know what to do according to the situation, do it confidently. If want to say NO ,say it ,if.You want to avoid that person ,do it , if you want to complain him to the police / anything ,do it . But don’t ask other men to help coz mostly they will also use this situation to their advantage, such kinds ofthings happened to my friend so you do it confidently by yourself. Don’t fear or worry be bold and brave
